{"id":239947,"date":"2002-11-18T18:33:01","date_gmt":"2002-11-18T23:33:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bahamasb2b.com\/news\/?p=239947"},"modified":"2021-02-14T08:59:23","modified_gmt":"2021-02-14T13:59:23","slug":"help-this-generation-before-we-lose-them","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bahamasb2b.com\/news\/2002\/11\/help-this-generation-before-we-lose-them","title":{"rendered":"Help This Generation Before We Lose Them"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Editor,<\/p>\n<p><P>I have been observing with dismay, the constant increase in all types of crimes in the Bahamas. Especially crimes against person. <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>I am of the opinion that the chief cause of this is the fact that babies are having babies, and also are having the responsibility of rearing these babies in a proper manner. <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>How can a mere child of 12 to 16 possibly raise a child in a proper manner when she has most likely not been raised in the best manner possible?? <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>Not taking away from the fact that there are many well-mannered successful persons from single parent homes, at least 80% of the time, these young mothers are from single parent homes where their mother was also from a single parent home! <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>Even worse than a single parent home is a home where both parents are present but one or both have serious social or psychological issues. This is a vicious cycle! <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>This became a very serious problem in the late sixties, when things in the Bahamas began to progress and the young people became even more aware of their rights and started to &#8220;do their own thing!&#8221; <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>Front porches disappeared, concerned neighbors disappeared, grandparents \/extended families disappeared! Everybody wanted to &#8220;mind his or her own business!&#8221; and not get involved! <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>This was the beginning of the end for the Family and all that was good in the Bahamas. <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>The kids who were born in the late 50&#8217;s and early 60&#8243;s, were still under the old rule, but they became adults in a time when it was all about money, and principles in the Bahamas did not mean a lot! <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>The 70&#8242; and 80&#8243;s where the era when many new Bahamian millionaires were made at the expense of the ruination of the nation. <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>So many of these persons who grew up in this era, did not know or appreciate the value of honesty, hard work and a good name! <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>This era of adults then became the child bearers and raisers! <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>Fortunately for some of us they&#8217;re still in contact with their displaced old grandmothers and mothers and grandfathers and fathers and they assisted in raising some of the children we see excelling today! <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>Unfortunately, many of these families were placed in a position of relying on guidance from these individuals who grew up in the 70&#8217;s and 80&#8217;s era, who had long given up on their mothers and fathers and grandparents, classifying them as &#8220;old fools!&#8221; <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>Pushing them to an early shameful grave! Now we go to yet another cycle, these persons who were born in the 50&#8217;s and 60&#8217;s and grew up in the 70&#8217;s and 80&#8217;s, are now in the position of being called grandpa or grandma!! What do they have to pass on to their grandkids?? <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>The same thing they passed on their kids, NOTHING! <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>As we are aware, there goes two generations not lost, but severely damaged! Repairable, but severely damaged! What can be done to repair the damage? <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>It is obvious that these parents have no control over their own lives let alone the lives of their children! Some one must mold these kids into positive adults! <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>The Police and the Prison System is not the way! <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>These kids need guidance not punishment! We can&#8217;t wait until these kids get to be 10 and 12 year olds and then try to find out what&#8217;s wrong with them! <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>We as a society need to impact on the lives, all children born to unwed teenage mothers, from the moment of birth! A child (gave birth) that does not have any morals or principles cannot instill these things into another child! Think man! <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>You don&#8217;t have to be a college professor to figure that out! If you own a boat, you don&#8217;t wait until the hull fall into holes, you check the hull continuously from day one, removing the barnacles and making the necessary repairs and finally putting on a fresh coat of paint!! <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>We must start Today! Repair this generation before we have another Generation Severely Damaged!!! <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>Yours etc., <\/P><\/p>\n<p><P><B>Mr. Marvin Gibson Sr<BR><br \/>\nA Letter To The Editor<\/B><\/P><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What can be done to repair the damage?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"rop_custom_images_group":[],"rop_custom_messages_group":[],"rop_publish_now":"initial","rop_publish_now_accounts":{"facebook_10223285771444175_51037792744":""},"rop_publish_now_history":[],"rop_publish_now_status":"pending","footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-239947","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-headlines"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bahamasb2b.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/239947","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bahamasb2b.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bahamasb2b.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bahamasb2b.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bahamasb2b.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=239947"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.bahamasb2b.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/239947\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":241135,"href":"https:\/\/www.bahamasb2b.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/239947\/revisions\/241135"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bahamasb2b.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=239947"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bahamasb2b.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=239947"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bahamasb2b.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=239947"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}