{"id":243805,"date":"2003-07-31T00:52:45","date_gmt":"2003-07-31T04:52:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bahamasb2b.com\/news\/2003\/07\/rampant-rudeness-on-the-internet-what-would-miss-manners-say"},"modified":"2003-07-31T00:52:45","modified_gmt":"2003-07-31T04:52:45","slug":"rampant-rudeness-on-the-internet-what-would-miss-manners-say","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bahamasb2b.com\/news\/2003\/07\/rampant-rudeness-on-the-internet-what-would-miss-manners-say","title":{"rendered":"Rampant Rudeness on the Internet: What Would &#8220;Miss Manners&#8221; Say?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Give some people a computer and an Internet connection and they think it&#8217;s a license for rudeness. What is it about the Internet that causes some folks to take all they learned about basic etiquette and throw it right out the window? <\/p>\n<p>\nThink about it: Just because your reader can&#8217;t see you doesn&#8217;t give you the right to be rude, but there are millions of Net users who feel that it does. I&#8217;ve been called names I&#8217;d rather not repeat in polite company and have been replied to in ALL CAPS. I&#8217;m not deaf&#8230;. THERE&#8217;S REALLY NO NEED TO YELL. <\/p>\n<p>\nI attribute this newfound sense of rudeness to the feeling of invisibility one gets while sitting behind the keyboard. I mean, would you really come up to me face to face and call me a &#8220;Jackass&#8221; when you can&#8217;t read simple directions on how to unsubscribe yourself from my ezine? I think not. <\/p>\n<p>\nIn this new digital age it appears we&#8217;ve taken everyday common courtesy and thrown it right out the window. Whatever happened to &#8220;please&#8221; and &#8220;thank you?&#8221; My mother, who taught me as a child to call all adults &#8216;Mr.&#8217; or &#8216;Mrs.&#8217; would have cardiac arrest over the emails I receive on a daily basis.<\/p>\n<p>\nRemember the &#8220;Golden Rule?&#8221; &#8220;Do unto others as you would want them to do unto you.&#8221; Translation: before you call someone names, swear at them, report them to Sp#m Cop or do any other annoying gesture, stop and think. Maybe you did subscribe to that ezine and just don&#8217;t remember. Try giving someone the benefit of the doubt before firing off an ugly email message that a real live breathing human being with feelings is going to read. Computers may not have feelings, but people do and there&#8217;s a person behind every email address and\/ or website. <\/p>\n<p>\nHere are the &#8216;Top 10 Do&#8217;s and Don&#8217;ts&#8217; for online communication: <\/p>\n<p>\n1) Don&#8217;t reply to someone in all caps; it&#8217;s equivalent to screaming at them. <\/p>\n<p>\n2) If you receive a newsletter and can&#8217;t figure out how to unsubscribe, before threatening to sue or reporting the publisher for Sp@m, politely ask the publisher to be removed. Any ezine publisher worth his salt will be happy to oblige. We really don&#8217;t want to hold you captive. <\/p>\n<p>\n3) Try to reply to all of your email messages within 48 hours. If not, many people get annoyed and will think you&#8217;re avoiding them. <\/p>\n<p>\n4) If you publish an ezine make sure you place subscribe and unsubscribe instructions at the bottom of every issue. <\/p>\n<p>\n5) Don&#8217;t use foul language in an email; that will get you nowhere. If you&#8217;re upset about something, please state the problem clearly along with how you&#8217;d like to see the problem resolved. <\/p>\n<p>\n6) If you visit a website and it&#8217;s not to your liking, don&#8217;t fire off a nasty email stating what a loser the site owner must be. Remember what your Mom use to say &#8220;If you don&#8217;t have something nice to say, don&#8217;t say anything at all.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>\n7) Make sure every page of your website contains an email address to contact you. Please don&#8217;t make me fill out a long form just to ask you a simple question. <\/p>\n<p>\n8) When replying to an email, keep the original message intact so the person you&#8217;re replying to knows what you&#8217;re talking about. Personally I receive over 300 messages a day, so I need to see your message in context &#8212; otherwise, I may not understand it. <\/p>\n<p>\n9) If you buy or sell products\/services online, make sure you&#8217;re using an online payment service like PayPal.com in order to move money around quickly. Don&#8217;t make snail mail your only payment option. <\/p>\n<p>\n10) Pay your bills in a timely fashion. If you owe someone money online don&#8217;t make them send out 10 emails telling you your payment is overdue. Pay promptly. <\/p>\n<p>\nSo there you have it; my Top 10 rules for being more polite and less rude online. If you incorporate these tips into your daily Internet dealings you&#8217;ll find the Net a little warmer and a friendlier place to be. <\/p>\n<p>\nThere&#8217;s enough road rage in the world, so when traveling the information highway please remember that we&#8217;re all human. Your computer is just a tool used to communicate with others. Please be KIND to them!<\/p>\n<p>\nBy Merle http:\/\/www.MCPromotions.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Top 10 rules for being more polite and less rude online.  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